Wovin
The conversation after the fight, held open until you are both ready.
Wovin is for the hour after a hard conversation, when the same argument is going in circles and neither of you can find the way back. It puts one calm repair conversation on the table and lets each of you write privately, on your own device, before either person has to say anything out loud.
Wovin is not therapy or medical care. It does not diagnose, treat, or cure anything. If you are in immediate danger, call local emergency services.
What a repair actually looks like
- Five stages, in order: Perspectives, Emotions, Triggers, Accountability, Resolution. You move forward one stage at a time.
- Both people have to be ready. When you are paired, the room does not advance a stage until each of you marks ready. Either person can hold the pace.
- The writing stays private. Repair words, prompts, answers, and notes are written and kept on the device that typed them. No AI reads them, and nothing is uploaded to be interpreted.
- A calm exit is always one tap away. Stopping never deletes private work and never counts as a failed attempt; the free calming tools, breathing, grounding, and private journal sit on every screen.
- You leave with one small next step, not a score, a streak, or a rating of your relationship.
Start before your partner does
The first repair program, the private journal, the daily check-in, and the calming tools work with no account and no pairing, so Wovin is genuinely useful to one person on the first night and stays useful when the second person joins.
Pairing is real, and it is fenced
Connecting two devices runs through Sign in with Apple and a real invite-and-join handshake, so an invitation is never a local-only illusion nobody else can accept. If you both made an invite, either code works: joining one quietly retires the other. A code works once, for 24 hours, and a person can be in only one pair at a time. Unpairing, re-pairing, and cancelled invites are race-safe: a stale response cannot silently attach an old partner to a new pair.
Words for the conversation itself
Twelve conversation guides cover the talks couples put off: a real apology, bringing up something that hurt, taking a pause mid-argument, money, chores, family, phones, jealousy, reconnecting after a busy stretch, different wants for closeness, a broken promise, and big decisions you disagree on. Each gives you opening lines you can actually say, what to listen for, what to avoid, and one small way to close. If there is fear, threats, or violence in the relationship, a joint conversation is not the right tool; Wovin points to confidential support instead.
Adults only, and never a game
Inside the Desire program, the optional Private Intimacy Map lets two adults mark non-graphic conversation starters privately. Only starters that both people affirmatively choose are ever shown, the session expires after 24 hours, and either person can clear it. Nothing about it is a score, a dare, or a record of consent. Every shared starter says the same thing: a shared starter is not consent — ask again in the moment.
Privacy
We do not sell your personal data and there are no third-party analytics SDKs. Wovin syncs only what pairing and a shared repair need: account and pair identifiers, the current repair stage, who has marked ready, opaque boundary category keys, comfort-card IDs that both people said yes to, reflections you explicitly chose to share, and purchase entitlement. Journal entries, repair drafts, the name you use for your partner, and map labels stay on your device. You can export or delete your data from inside the app.
Free, and Wovin Lifetime
The five-stage Repair Room, the calming tools, the journal, check-ins, the first program, three conversation guides and pairing are free. Wovin Lifetime is a single purchase through Apple that opens the four deeper programs (46 guided steps, each with narration) and all twelve conversation guides. Only one of you buys it: your partner's phone opens too while you are paired. It never renews and there is no subscription.